We’re currently in the van and I’m lounging in the very back after taking a nice nap. We have a fairly long drive to Payson, AZ (probably 8 hours) so I’m taking advantage of the down time to get some writing in. This week has been really busy so I haven’t had a chance since Tuesday. This update is five days worth of tour so sorry in advance for the super long post.
We had a blast in Tucson. After Katie and I had dinner with her aunt, uncle, and cousin, we got in the hot tub for a while and went to bed fairly early. The next day the same aunt (Joan) took Katie, Joe, and I out for the day while Aaron went to his favorite spots around town and got the van an oil change. Our first stop was Las Palomas Resort, which their uncle is associated with. It’s a gorgeous hotel with a golf course, spa, and huge pool area complete with a water slide, hot tubs, and various sized pools for kids and adults. We spent the afternoon swimming and Joan was so nice to treat us to a poolside lunch (plus dinner the night before!).

Our next adventure was taking a guided tour of the Sabino Canyon. A tram drove us around to two spots in the canyon where we had a chance to explore for a few minutes. It was so beautiful and amazing. As soon as we boarded the tram Katie and I freaked out because we saw a pair of quail right nearby. Then right as we started the tour a rattlesnake crossed the road ahead of us! Unfortunately that picture is stuck on Joe’s camera until we find a compatible cable for him. We also saw a few lizards, including a horny toad and a poisonous gila monster. Apparently gila monsters are very rare to see - even the tour guide took her camera out!


After a very lovely afternoon, Aaron’s aunt & uncle treated us to a yummy dinner at a place called Yoshimatsu. Once we were way too full, we headed to the show at Sports on Congress. Aaron was really excited to see all of his old friends and had a good time. One of our old friends that moved from Baltimore also came with a bunch of people too so it was a really fun show.

The next day we played in San Diego, CA at The Epicentre. If you’re a touring band I strongly suggest not playing there. The show wasn’t a total bust but only because we had some really awesome friends who showed up and made the night worthwhile. The promoter put us on 1st out of 5 bands even though he said he would put us in the middle. Since he wasn’t there, the guy running the show would not change it. When you play in an unknown town, it’s ideal to be sandwiched in between local bands so that you have a chance of people actually seeing you. I busted my ass to find some of the bands for this show and make it happen, so you think they would have the courtesy to let us play where we requested. All in all I don’t think it really mattered that we played first, but it was just an irritating start to a long night.
One of the bands after us had a lyric that we could not resist documenting: “I’m not too bright… but I just might… kick your ass.” Amazing. Two other bands that were really nice to help me make the show happen were The Fascination, and Love Campaign. They were both really nice to us so hopefully we’ll get a chance to play with them again in the future at a more band friendly place.
After the show was over we found out that we weren’t getting paid anything. This is venue #2 of the tour that has stiffed us.
*** RANT WARNING***
It infuriates me how some venues get away with running things the way they do. In the case of The Epicentre they require you to pre-sell tickets and only give you a whopping $1 per head off of $8 tickets. In addition to pre-selling they “tally” at the door asking who is there to see who. We had 9 friends pay to specifically see us, which isn’t a lot but pretty good considering we’ve never played in that town before and only really knew a few people. Their oh-so-accurate tally sheet said we drew 2 people. Even though there were 70 people in and out the entire night (roughly $560 in door money) they were only able to pay two bands who pre-sold tickets maybe $35 each. The rest of us got stiffed because the guy running it said they had to “eat it big time” since there weren’t more people in attendance. If the overhead for one night is over $500 for an all ages venue there is something seriously wrong.
There are so many things that are wrong with the way venues like that do business. It is a fact of life that a venue is going to have some really amazing nights and some not so great nights. Sometimes you might lose some money but it all balances out and there is no excuse not to be able to pay bands anything at all because it doesn’t balance out so easily for them. Bands are providing an entertainment service for venues regardless of if they bring a ton of people or not - it’s not the other way around. Tallying is something else that drives me up the wall. If a venue decides to tally to get a general idea of who is bringing who and then pays the bands a little more or less depending on their draw, I’m totally fine with that. However, in most cases these venues pay per the head you bring and will completely screw over anyone who doesn’t draw well. This is unbelievably unfair to touring bands, especially if they haven’t played in the area. I’m over slimy venues and promoters.
*** End Rant ***
Like I said, the night wasn’t totally a bust… The people who did come to see us were super awesome. Specifically there were two people that missed us but came anyway at the end to say hi and bought a ton of merch. It really made our night. Sometimes shows might not be great, but even if there is one person excited to see us or if we get one new fan it makes it worth it.
We were happy to finally get out of there and go crash Aaron’s friend’s house. She was super awesome and treated us to an amazing breakfast the next morning. We also bonded over our shared craft nerdiness. She crochets using plastic grocery bags that she cuts into strips for yarn. Using the plastic and other recycled materials she makes these awesome eco-friendly bags.
Our next stop was a nice short 2 hour drive to Long Beach, CA. Aaron grew up in Long Beach so his friend Brad made us a killer dinner. While Brad was cooking, his wife Carrie took us to see the beach which was only a few blocks away. We were totally excited to walk in the Pacific Ocean but unfortunately that’s all the California beach time we got in.

The show was at a small but awesome bar called The Prospector. It was packed, we had an open bar tab, and they paid us extremely well. We were super excited to see our friend Kyle who moved away from the Baltimore area a few years back. It was a great show and a relief after the rocky night before. Afterwards we drove to our friend Ben Pringle’s house in LA since it was only 40 minutes. Poor Katie had to listen to the alcohol influenced ramblings of the rest of us for the length of the drive because our radio had stopped working on the way to Long Beach. It turned out that our GPS plug came apart and blew the fuse when we plugged it in unknowingly. I’m so happy it was just a fuse because no radio is just not an option if we want to stay sane.
We got to Ben’s, crashed almost immediately, and slept until about noon. It was fantastic because we were exhausted from the past two days. Unfortunately Friday was one of the busiest days we had so far so that sleeping in was the only real downtime we had. At 2:00 we recorded a radio session for STAR 98.7. Adam’s friend Josh is a DJ there and hooks us up with some sweet radio promo. We recorded three of our new songs stripped down with vocals and piano in this totally smooth studio. There was a ridiculous pile of pillows in the middle of the rooms for studio audiences. The engineer was telling us how they had just had The Donnas, The Go-Gos, Evanescence… totally smooth. If you live in LA and can get the station, Josh’s show “The Adventure Club” airs on Sunday nights and he’s able to play some pretty cool music unlike most of the top stations. I think our session will be aired in about a month.

After the radio thing we went to In and Out Burger as per Aaron’s request and I got an “animal style” burger since I’ve heard so much about it. I don’t eat a lot of meat and haven’t had a cheeseburger in almost a year but it was pretty amazing. Even Aaron, who is a strict vegetarian, made an exception and loved every bite. A couple hours later we drove over to Sunset Strip where we were playing and parked our van in a crazy Hollywood hills neighborhood. That reminds me - I never saw the Hollywood sign! Oh well. Anyway, Katie and Joe’s friend Laurie picked us up and took us out to dinner with her husband and baby. She picked us up in her super smooth Bentley - I kid you not. It was at this point where I felt I was getting the true LA/Hollywood experience. They treated us to dinner at a nice french restaurant and it was delicious. We have been incredibly fortunate this tour to have had so many people make and buy dinner for us - we don’t ever expect it so we’re very thankful for it.

After dinner we had to go to the venue called On the Rox and load our stuff up a crazy steep flight of stairs. After loading in Aaron and I had to park the van which is always a feat in a busy city. We got a space, came back and set up our stuff, did a sound check, and doors opened right after that. I was so jittery and wound up from the business and also worried that we wouldn’t draw 30 people. The agreement with the promoter was that if we drew 30 people they would split the door with us - otherwise we wouldn’t get paid. We took the gamble since we didn’t have any better offers and wouldn’t have a show at all. If we could do it anywhere, we could do it there, but it a bunch of people couldn’t make it and the count ended up being 17. Regardless, it was a great show - the crowd was all really awesome friends that we haven’t seen in a long time as well as their friends. It was really nice of Ryan, the guitar player from Ozma, to come see us after playing together a while back in DC. Ben is also in The Rentals, so having two people that are in bands we’re big fans of geeking out over our keyboards was a pretty awesome sight.
After the show we parked our van back at Ben’s house so we wouldn’t have to deal with paying for parking on the strip. Then my friend Dani from college was super nice to pick us up and drive us around to all the cool Hollywood stops. After taking touristy pictures and seeing all the wackos we headed back to her house, played some Wii, and went back to Ben’s to crash when he got home from his gig. Him and his roommate Chuck were very nice to let us stay for two nights.

We had to get up pretty early this morning since we have an early load tonight and now we’re officially headed back east with a little under two weeks of tour left.